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Originally Posted by grimlock
I thought about that, but thought it could past under the guise of discussion on the topic.. anyways I thought you would at least be entertained
I was temporarily feeling really confident, so I replied her early msg which said "Hi" after I had said "good afternoon".. all missed and seperated by a few hours
So I said: "Nice pic!" after I saw she upload a new pic (which ofcourse i had already seen on her IG..)
Oh shit. I feel like an idiot.. now she is going to just group me in with the hundreds of admirers she has... DUP!#@%@#$^
Heaven to hell in a heartbeat.
Don't relax for a second.. this is going to be hard work.
Also now I understand the 'shit tests' women give to screen guys .. basically you can't be over confident and you definitely can't worship her... fuck, hope I haven't ruined my chances..
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Ok man, here's some legit advice: you gotta get out more and start dating regularly. You're hung up on a girl you've never met and that will scare off a girl in a heartbeat. When you meet a girl who's top notch, you've got to be interested, confident, but not dependent and stalkerish. There's a fine line...well maybe it's more like a big fat line. You're obsessing over every little detail of how you said hello, which is a little pathetic. But it's ok, you can build up to being a stud. You've gotta start somewhere.
But the only way to enhance your mojo is to get out there and experience some success and failure and build up your confidence. Start with some easier targets (you know what I mean) to build confidence.