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      05-19-2013, 03:38 AM   #1
andrew777
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Really Prude GF???

Background
I've been seeing this girl for 3 weeks
We really hit it off right away and see each other almost every day
I'm only the third guy she has dated, and only the second serious relationship she has been in
She is young, 19, and has been very timid and reserved
She is very inexperienced
She pretty much didn't know how to kiss, tease or caress at all
She was super jumpy when we first started making or when I'd run my fingers up her thigh or kiss her neck. She would basically start giggling and draw back before hugging me to make sure things wouldn't heat up more.
She used to turn scarlet and bury her face in my chest if I'd ever kiss her in public and start whispering that people are watching and it's pornographic

Anyway, things have been going well, she has opened up a lot, and is more passionate with each day, and I really care about her a lot, but I feel like things are moving a bit slow. She's told me she was raised by her grandmother, who is very old fashioned, and I thought it was nice that she respected herself enough not to hook up with anyone right away.

Here are my concerns...
Today I met her two of her best friends. Both of these girls are incredibly slutty. After spending the evening with them I just can't picture my girl as this innocent virgin anymore. This is kind of pissing me off, since I haven't really had to deal with this shy prudish nonsense since like sophomore year of high school. Anyway, now I've gotten it into my head to just ask her if she is a virgin, but I feel like that would be awful. It just seems like a lose/lose since if she says no I will probably be pissed that she doesn't trust me enough to go farther and if she says yes it would come off as incredibly rude and inconsiderate.

It's really starting to bug me now that I met her friends though. Some of my friends have been breaking my balls over this as well, but that didn't bother me. Now I just have this doubt about her hovering over me.
Am I just being an ass by worrying about this? Everything else is really great, but I guess I find her wanting to take things slow as an insult to my ego. I don't doubt that she cares about me or is attracted to me since she has really blossomed since we met, she comes over and cooks, and even writes me love letters.
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