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carve,
First and foremost, you were NOT the cause of your parents' divorce. Something you really need to remove from your programming. Hopefully you can get past that.
Second, all the lifestyle you have now can continue after you have a child. It would add to the things you and your SO can do TOGETHER and with your child(ren) Next time you are in the airport, on the slopes, diving: look around. Don't you see kids too?
Watching someone go from totally and completely dependent on you for everything, to being a function individual, to a self-sufficient thinking young adult just gives you a sense of pride and accomplishment that doesn't come from anywhere else I've ever found in 48 trips around the sun
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