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What's a major deal breaker/turn off in the opposite sex?
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02-19-2021, 06:19 PM | #45 |
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I like smart, funny, fit and easy going women. Education isn't critical because being smart and being educated are not the same thing. Tolerant is important. Varied interest in travel, cars, boats, good wine and whisk(e)y and must love dogs. As luck would have it my wife is all of those things and much much more. She puts up with me, on first blush I sometimes come off as an ass. I have had a complicated life and approach things in a pretty easy laid back way, not much phases me. I'm retired and like to work with my hands so sometimes I have dirty fingernails. Oh well.
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02-19-2021, 06:21 PM | #46 |
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I have no issue with that. My view is this, every single one of us does something to make ourselves more attractive, hair style, make up, clothing what ever it is. So if a woman wants to make herself more attractive or feel better about herself then I'm ok with that.
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02-19-2021, 06:38 PM | #47 |
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Really it’s just plastic prosthetics I’m not into.
...I forget it’s 2021. Surely someone will be offended But seriously, even things like silicone implants. I’ve been surprised not even realizing it, though. Meet someone and I feel like Chris Tucker “Daaaaaaaamn!” Get into some alone time and find out they’re not real - they get knocked down a peg or two. Goes deeper than physical appearance with a nod to self confidence. Sexually and superficially, they are pretty rad. Deep relationship, I don’t think we’re going to connect. |
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02-19-2021, 06:57 PM | #50 |
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My second ex wife got implants, she was very fit and after children she was left somewhat smaller and felt "weak" (her words). We spend a lot of money at the time with a very good surgeon. The results were nothing short of stunning. Very natural looking and I think she was very happy both with her physical appearance and emotionally. I'm always surprised when guys get all twisted up about implants but are ok with hair colour, make up, high heels etc. You be you.
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There are picture tests on the innernet, 'are these real or silicone'. Somehow, I do quite well. Murf PS: I hate high heels. What is sexy about a woman who can do little but hobble around? I prefer a woman in running shoes. Murf |
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Also, I walk just fine in heels. I wear them every day, all day. I'm not Bambi. |
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02-19-2021, 07:26 PM | #56 |
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My deal breakers are:
Smoking cigarettes and weed. Cigars every once and a while is fine, but cigarettes and weed is fucking disgusting and looks so unattractive. Tattoos all over, just not my style for a guy Facial piercings. Just no Large unsecured debt Bad eatings habits/excessive drinking Chubby Turn offs would include, but are not limited to: Beards Gaps in teeth Skinny arms, legs, etc., need some muscle there guys! Shorter than my minimum height requirement Long hair Not opening the door for me Android phone (I hate green text messages) |
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02-19-2021, 07:37 PM | #57 |
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Ok, I'll play a bit more seriously for a moment :
Turn-offs include, but are not limited to (and can be counterbalanced against positives in some cases) :
I could go on for a while here. I don't care about race, height, cup size, booty size (within my turn-on range anyway). Don't care if you're blonde, redhead, brunette, blue eyes, brown eyes. Don't care if you're bi or straight. Don't care if your family is big, small, scattered, local, as long as they're good people and have their shit together too for the most part.
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02-19-2021, 09:33 PM | #58 |
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I sincerely hope no one who thinks it’s a dealbreaker dates or marries a woman who ends up getting breast cancer. Pretty sure you’ve never seen the t-shirt that reads “Yes they’re fake, the real ones tried to kill me.” Women lose their breasts for a number of reasons, and if having implants makes them feel like a woman again, I hope you don’t ever leave someone because that’s your deal breaker. Last edited by Sara; 02-20-2021 at 04:48 AM.. |
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02-20-2021, 04:45 AM | #61 |
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If a woman isn't relatively fit with nice feet and a nice smile, I just......can't. I also gravitate towards white women. We like what we like, right?!?
Oh yeah, and beyond the superficial ramblings..... ....I need a woman I can be vulnerable with/to. Someone I can vent to and release the bullshit I suppress deep inside. I need a woman that I can escape with; the one that makes you forget about everything else when I'm with her. I'm probably asking for a unicorn, but I know they're out there. [cue "X-Files" theme music] |
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High heels are so last century.... Men, can you imagine yourselves wearing high heels? To work? Ever? Murf Last edited by Littlebear; 02-20-2021 at 04:58 AM.. |
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I prefer real teeth, but if the person needs to fill a gap (like me), who am I to object? I still have eyes, even though I can't touch. Gummybears make a good bedtime snack, but they are not a meal (is my analogy clear? ) Murf PS: What about 'butt implants'? I have a hard time scoping out the real from the implants.... Last edited by Littlebear; 02-20-2021 at 06:20 AM.. |
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Another data point are my FB friends that I met through my dancing. It's amazing how the vast majority of them (men and women) are extreme far left. |
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Which leads to the common complaint here about smokers. When I kissed her on that trip I felt as if I was kissing a weed bud. |
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