Billup wrote ....., so from what I gathered, you were whipped, and played numerous times, and never did anything about it.
Sounds logical. Grimmy, I hate to break this news to you, but every woman has a vagina...., you made it seem like she had the only one on the planet. lol
No, she only cheated once (to my knowledge) first, then I cheated after several years when she was not in the same place - that was when I realized what I missing out, I guess you could say.
After a while, I gathered to courage to ask for breakup - but she wouldn't let me go, coming to my house, in front of my parents etc. - and besides in the short term I was still getting sex, so I guess that was why I stayed. (even though I had yearned for freedorm, the force of which in the short term, was not greater than that off a pussy)
It was after my desire to be free had been thwarted that I become a monster, hooking up with girls left and right over the internet (she had now moved back to HK).. wasn't found out, although there was one close call with someone she could have known IRL.. i think she had suspicions, either consciously or subconsciously rejecting them. It was then that I found out she probably had my email password, because she knew something she couldn't have.. this transgression jarred me the most, however you could say i was the one who was cheating.
What I learnt: i) if it starts badly..
ii) can't change someones base character
iii) "real life" gets in the way of ideal relationships
etc.
blah blah..
anyone got any interesting stories to share?