Mr. C4 wrote I don’t know man, my mechanic is a very well seasoned race mechanic, with his own M3 collection of various models so he knows his stuff.
If that's the case, then why are you on here asking other forum members for input?
Have you asked your mechanic his thoughts?
Rubber wears, has more movement than solid bushings, and that would cause the squirmy feeling you may have.
I noticed on track that my car has a similar feeling at higher speeds moving around track.. My whole rear subframe is OE so I suspect its the bushings also.
I've been in a 1 series BMW that had bad subframe bushings and the car was all over the place. We did solid subframe bushings and the car felt 10x better.
Its worth the few bucks to do it if you're not happy with how your car feels.
-Frank