Break-up sex is the best sex.
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First of all. How old are you and her?
If you're younger than 40, then you did the right thing. Just move on. Else, you might want to consider taking her back.
If she's younger than 25 then that's how they are at that age, they'll eventually grow up. If she's older than 25, then it's a natural thing for her to sleep around. All that crying is just grade A Hollywood acting. She's not crying because she misses you, she's crying because she has been exposed and feels bad about her self.
Clearly she has no respect for you. Especially after you took her back the first time.
If you're younger than 40, then you did the right thing. Just move on. Else, you might want to consider taking her back.
If she's younger than 25 then that's how they are at that age, they'll eventually grow up. If she's older than 25, then it's a natural thing for her to sleep around. All that crying is just grade A Hollywood acting. She's not crying because she misses you, she's crying because she has been exposed and feels bad about her self.
Clearly she has no respect for you. Especially after you took her back the first time.
Well I see you've got all the jolly rancher and gonorrhea issues figured out. I have nothing to add. The heart wants what the heart wants.
Wtf is wrong with you? You gotta stop giving so many chances to someone that cheats on you. You must be a nice guy. Check out the book "no more mr. Nice guy." If you are a nice guy, you need to stop immediately.
^^ he's not the problem.
He wanted to believe in love, and even knowing her ways, he gave it a shot. Over and over again. The thing is, she wants to believe in love and feel wanted elsewhere too.
He has hope, she will be crying over her opportunities for happiness when she is old and still waiting for the thing that'll keep her still.
Being a nice guy isn't the issue, the issue is that most people have zero need to actually be happy and we are too willing to drag others down with us.
He wanted to believe in love, and even knowing her ways, he gave it a shot. Over and over again. The thing is, she wants to believe in love and feel wanted elsewhere too.
He has hope, she will be crying over her opportunities for happiness when she is old and still waiting for the thing that'll keep her still.
Being a nice guy isn't the issue, the issue is that most people have zero need to actually be happy and we are too willing to drag others down with us.
You will never truly trust her. Move on.
jesus f***ing christ I thought I was sad
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Lups wrotegood take, have you been there b4?^^ he's not the problem.
He wanted to believe in love, and even knowing her ways, he gave it a shot. Over and over again. The thing is, she wants to believe in love and feel wanted elsewhere too.
He has hope, she will be crying over her opportunities for happiness when she is old and still waiting for the thing that'll keep her still.
Being a nice guy isn't the issue, the issue is that most people have zero need to actually be happy and we are too willing to drag others down with us.
the only good thing about these bitches is the sex, but if shes also doing someone else have some goddamn self respect
seriously just fuck her one last time and come all over her face or something.. then declare victory, call her a slut and walk out the door
these bitches just good for ONE thing
Grimmy speaking like a pro. "Fuck her one last time, cum all over her face and declare victory" lol. Man, so much we need to learn from you.
When you are banging other chicks, take pics and send them to her. That'll teach her!
grimlock wroteWinner!Lups wrotegood take, have you been there b4?^^ he's not the problem.
He wanted to believe in love, and even knowing her ways, he gave it a shot. Over and over again. The thing is, she wants to believe in love and feel wanted elsewhere too.
He has hope, she will be crying over her opportunities for happiness when she is old and still waiting for the thing that'll keep her still.
Being a nice guy isn't the issue, the issue is that most people have zero need to actually be happy and we are too willing to drag others down with us.
the only good thing about these bitches is the sex, but if shes also doing someone else have some goddamn self respect
seriously just fuck her one last time and come all over her face or something.. then declare victory, call her a slut and walk out the door
these bitches just good for ONE thing
Grimmy stole the words from my mouth. Come all over her face and yell like Braveheart. Don't forgive a cheater even once. Have a backbone and stand up for your damn self and stick to your decision.
May be hard to believe, but there are women out in the world that will respect you and not take you for granted. Jus sayin. Good for you for wanting advice, but in my opinion, nobody is worth a second chance. Respect me from the start, or walk the walk.
No more relationship threads. Next thing you know everyone is going to start gardening and crocheting threads for fucks sake.
May be hard to believe, but there are women out in the world that will respect you and not take you for granted. Jus sayin. Good for you for wanting advice, but in my opinion, nobody is worth a second chance. Respect me from the start, or walk the walk.
No more relationship threads. Next thing you know everyone is going to start gardening and crocheting threads for fucks sake.
grimlock wroteNo, I haven't but why should the one who didn't do wrong always be the one who changes? Sure there is need to think about why he is attracted to this type of females but as a flaw forgiving people is not the worst thing I can imagine.good take, have you been there b4?
the only good thing about these bitches is the sex, but if shes also doing someone else have some goddamn self respect
seriously just fuck her one last time and come all over her face or something.. then declare victory, call her a slut and walk out the door
these bitches just good for ONE thing
Aah, to be 15 again...
My friend squishy went through a similar experience. 
"I hate cheaters" thread...
http://www.m3post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1100135
"I hate cheaters" thread...
http://www.m3post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1100135
BMW F22 wroteOK, so I have to say this: all those books are stupid. They are for insecure guys who need to prey on naïve women. There is nothing wrong with being nice. NOTHING. I have friends who are "bad boys" and they are all alone nearing 40 years old.Wtf is wrong with you? You gotta stop giving so many chances to someone that cheats on you. You must be a nice guy. Check out the book "no more mr. Nice guy." If you are a nice guy, you need to stop immediately.
That being said, being nice does not mean giving someone an infinite amount of changes if they are cheating on you. Being nice means breaking up with her, and doing her a favor and letting her live her life by cutting her off completely. What's *not* nice is her seeming upset over the breakup and him going back and dragging out the inevitable. What's *not* nice is taking her out to a lovely little restaurant, a cute little bar and watching her favorite show one last time.
P1et wroteThe book "no more mr. Nice guy" is not about picking up women or treating them like shit. It's about learning how to put yourself first, set boundaries, and seeing things differently. Basically, Nice Guys usually avoid confrontation and aim to please others (read: putting everyone else first). They believe that if they are nice and do good then they will get the same in return. That is almost never the case. The OP, IMO, is a nice guy because I bet he felt guilty when the girl started crying and such. The book mentions that Nice Guys are bad enders- it takes them multiple tries before they actually walk away from a bad relationship.OK, so I have to say this: all those books are stupid. They are for insecure guys who need to prey on naïve women. There is nothing wrong with being nice. NOTHING. I have friends who are "bad boys" and they are all alone nearing 40 years old.
That being said, being nice does not mean giving someone an infinite amount of changes if they are cheating on you. Being nice means breaking up with her, and doing her a favor and letting her live her life by cutting her off completely. What's *not* nice is her seeming upset over the breakup and him going back and dragging out the inevitable. What's *not* nice is taking her out to a lovely little restaurant, a cute little bar and watching her favorite show one last time.
Waste. Of. Time.
Edit - I don't know why you think she is worthy of your time and respect, you obviously weren't worthy of hers. Respect is earned, and you were a lot more civil than I would have been in that situation. Don't talk to her, don't attempt to communicate with her, don't respond to her when she contacts you. The relationship was poison from the get go, no reason to look back at it with rose color glasses.
Edit - I don't know why you think she is worthy of your time and respect, you obviously weren't worthy of hers. Respect is earned, and you were a lot more civil than I would have been in that situation. Don't talk to her, don't attempt to communicate with her, don't respond to her when she contacts you. The relationship was poison from the get go, no reason to look back at it with rose color glasses.
