Silverstoneorspacegray wrote I've done a bunch of reading on various oils and properties but would you mind sharing a little bit about how the differing characteristics affected your choice and feel free to pretend im a dummy

After reading a few of the bearing issue threads, and reading that it is caused by inadequate oil lubrication, I didn't feel comfortable with 10W-60 for DAILY DRIVING. I would be more than happy to use 10W-60 on the track.
Using OEM Castrol and Shell fluid, I was never able to get the oil temp marker to stay at 210F, it would raise to 210F while I was on it, but drop down to ~195F when I would take it easy. In my eyes, this tells me I'm not getting the oil up to ideal operating temp.
I then read about the users (one being a very close friend) who switched to Mobil 1 0W-40 and saw acceptable wear on their bearings. (Can't say for sure if they were lucky to have minimal wear, or if the oil actually did help.)
Now, with the above information, I started comparing oil viscoisties. After seeing the numbers, I decided that Mobil 1 0W-40 was too thin for my liking. I was worried that if I did choose to really push the car, that the 0W-40 would not be thick enough once the temps started climbing.
I then focused on AMSOIL 5W-50 Signature Series, Redline 5W-50, and Motul 5W-50. Motul was a PITA to get, so that was dropped from my choices.
Back when I made this decision, AMSOIL had not introduced their new formula. At the time the stats on paper for AMSOIL were much closer to Redline, they were almost the same.
Since I was looking at two great oils with very similar specs (based on tested specs), I simply went with the one that made more sense financially. I buy AMSOIL in a 12QT case for $102* shipped (1-Day Shipping), bringing it to $8.50 a quart. Where as ordering Redline would have cost me $13 a liter, and I would of had to pay a ton for 1 day shipping through ECS (My store of choice for Redline).
After my first oil change with AMSOIL, I noticed the engine had a much smoother rev pulling out of my driveway after a cold start. Not only that, but oil temps stay at 210F for light daily driving / spirited driving.
And there you go, my thought process. Again, I have no concrete evidence saying 10W-60 is not ideal for DD. But after my research, I felt most comfortable with AMSOIL or Redline 5W-50