I took home my 2013 E92 M3 Comp back in December. Coming from an 07 Carrera S, and an 07 Cayman S prior to that. The M3 is not a Porsche by any means, but I've always wanted to own an M. This is my first M, first V8, and first DCT of all the cars I've owned, and after experiencing it for a few months, I get it now. I get why this platform is so beloved among all enthusiasts, especially this allure that surrounds the E9X chassis and this engine. It has grown on me incredibly fast, and I'm grateful I get to enjoy it as a daily.
I got my Cayman at 77k miles, and the Carrera S 2.5 years later at 98k miles, so like some have mentioned above. Don't be apprehensive to the higher mileage cars, history and maintenance is key. Any car, regardless if it's "expensive european" or otherwise, neglected, they all can be expensive. Plus, my last model year 2013 is nearing 10 years old, time will continue to "age" the car. That ratio of low-mileage cars will only continue to shrink down and warrant more $$ to obtain.
I paid 38 in December, and it had 51k miles, I consider myself lucky to get in at a reasonable point in the market, since from what I've seen, values have gone up. First order for me was to address the priority items, so inevitably I did spend a couple more grand to dress the engine appropriately. Rod bearings and studs, all the seals including the valve covers, oil pan, oil filter housing, upper timing cover, front and rear main seal, water pump, etc. There was also a slight weep found from a small o-ring, I forget the name, that sits on top of the DCT, I had that replaced as well.
Point being I chose to invest in the beginning so I can soundly enjoy the car with no worries, backed by the shop's warranty on all that work. And I can just address things moving forward either proactively or as needed.
Now I can throw in my own sauce, to make modifications to make the car my own, and that I am highly looking forward to.
I will say for the OP, since you currently own a 135i, when I sold the 911 and began shopping, I test drove a 135i with the intent to find a good example, save some monies and have fun making a project out of it as I've always liked that platform and they have huge potential to pull some serious power and fun out of that car. Going to the M3 to have this engine, the handling, the looks and the added dare I say "luxury" niceties, I wouldn't have gone any other way. I am confident I will have this thing for a long long time.
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